5/29/2023 0 Comments Negative nancy positive![]() ![]() You’ve given yourself too complex a job, to be sole caretaker of his moods and family cheerleader, despite your admirable attempts. If my husband could appreciate all that we’ve achieved over the years, he’d see how positive our marriage, family and many of our friendships could be.īut he’s unwilling to leave behind his negative views. I’ve worked throughout our marriage to be an equal financial partner, and am closely involved with the children’s schooling and activities. He should’ve gone for therapy at least ten years ago but always balked when I suggested it. ![]() I don’t know how to handle his bleak attitude toward everything. His father left the family, didn’t keep up regular visits with his children, bad-mouthed their mother, causing her to be unhappy throughout their growing up. He’s distanced from a couple of his old friends, argues with one of his siblings, and finds fault too often with our sons ages 12 and 14. Their new place isn’t large or showy, but they’re now “off limits.” I still see the wife but my husband gets annoyed about it. When a couple we’ve been friends with purchased a new home, he declared them “materialistic” and didn’t want to get together with them. ![]() Now, he sees and reacts to everything as a burden or a putdown. When we dated, he was sometimes moody, but I could lift him out of it. My husband of 15 years has become very negative. ![]()
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